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EQ, you and I have been friends for quite a while on the boards and I hate to see you so pissed off, but I do have to say you take things way to hard. You shouldnt be so sensitive that you get pissed so easy that you end up quitting over and over. You know damn well, youre going to regret jumping the gun and quitting over this. This emotional roller coaster that you put yourself on over the message boards is just wrong dude. You have big time highs where everything is going great and then WHAM someone says something and down you go.
trying to be reasonable and try to get you to understand becuase I think you'll have to be telling alot of people to fuck off if you dont see how it looks to others.
I hate to say it, but you do say you're leaving and then you come back (not that you shouldnt be back) over and over. You shouldnt let shit get to you so much and make you jump the gun. You know you regret leaving because you come back. Its obvious since you are responding that you were looking and probably would wish you had not quit the board again.
You really have to let shit slide and not do this any more. Sure someone might say something you dont like, take a shot at you, give you shit, but we all usually get some of that. Most of us dont jump and over-react to it. You make such a big production of it when it happens that everyone remembers it, and then when you do it again it people get a little less patient with it.
you can be mad at me if you want. you can stop coming to the board if you want (I dont think that you want that though), you can tell us to fuck off, but dude you have to get controll over the emotions to have fun and survive in a place like this. You need to take a deep breath and think if the immediate hurt, rejection, slam is really worth giving up somethin you really dont want to give up on. I would guess 99% of the time its nothing that is worth getting SOOOOO overly pissed about. Really think before you jump. Thats all. And marv is kind of right. It does seem to create too much drama. It might not seem like it when youre the one with the feelings hurting, but you have to try and get control over it.
<font color="#a62a2a" size="1">[ January 24, 2004 09:23 PM: Message edited by: chaserfan ]</font>
<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">That's part of life. You have to be able to deal with it. I'd think you'd have learned that by now.Quote:
Originally posted by EndQuest:
I just didn't want any crap, ]
What's starting your own board going to solve? With the way you're acting, do you think we're all going to abandon this one and go over there where we'll get banned if we happen to say something that hurts you.
I really don't have a problem with you EQ, you're a good guy. However, you're just digging yourself a deeper hole and you're going to make things uncomfortable for the rest of us.
I can't believe someone's gonna screw all this up already!
Its not screwed up yet. this will soon blow over and hopefully we'll all put it behind us and go on and have some fun. HAVE SOME FUCKING FUN I SAID! I DEMAND IT!!!!
EQ, thats nice you started a board, but I dont think you should bail and give up when it gets a little rough for you. Stand up to the problem, be a man and face it, solve it, forget it and go on to the next hurdle in life. You cant run for ever thinking you'll escape confrontation. It will always find you. Making your own board to try and get away will probably just make you miss your friends here and on the other Spawn board.
Not to mention you'll get pretty bored there by yourself. [img]tongue.gif[/img]
<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">You're doing it again...and again...and again. Please, EQ, stop putting yourself through all this. You're hurting yourself.Quote:
Originally posted by EndQuest:
I e-mailed hostboard and requested my board be deleted.
Sculpey and/or Baimun please delete this thread and any of my posts.
I won't bother anyone anymore.
I think that chaser has just written one of the best, most thought out replies that I've ever read.
Richard........ it's your choice obviously whether to stay or go. But we've all seen this over and over. Just settle down and take it all instride. We thrive on sarcasm here, maybe because most of us know or feel like we know each other. It's like playing the 'dozens'. When you're zinged, just say 'got me' and move on.
...some mod you turned out to be! Where were you, when we needed you? Nothin' to say, huh? [img]mad.gif[/img]
...you should have been here! To calm everyone down and send them to their corners. And most important, to dole out the chicken soup and tell us all a bedtime story!
...where were you. huh???
...sniff-sniff! [img]graemlins/cry_smile.gif[/img]
...you're a baaaaaaaad moderator. [img]graemlins/cry.gif[/img]
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Yes.. yes I am.